The bride's cake was not always a cake. In fact,
the tradition began with grains of wheat which were thrown at her as part of
the wedding ceremony and this was thought to be a symbol of fertility.
Roman bakers, around 100 B.C.E. began making the
wedding wheat into small cakes to be eaten. However, this did not always
happen and people were still often tempted to throw these cakes at the
bride. So a compromise was made where the wheat cakes could be crumbled over
the head of the bride. As a further symbol of fertility, the couple had to
eat the crumbs, an act known as confarreatio or "eating together." This word
translates into "confetti" which is still traditional today, however rice or
paper has replaced the wheat or wheat cakes.

Throughout the British Isles, a tradition
developed to pile the wheat cakes into an enormous pile, the higher the
pile, the more prosperous the families being united. A French chef visiting
London in the 1800's was appalled at the haphazard manner in which the
stacked cakes were presented since the stack often fell over and he came up
with the new idea to make full-sized cakes which were then stacked and iced.
The tradition of the stacked cake is still
popular today, however, at most weddings, the cake is not longer thrown at
the bride.